WHEN A CHILD
BECOMES
SERIOUSLY ILL,
#HUGHSLAW
WHEN A CHILD BECOMES SERIOUSLY ILL, THE WHOLE FAMILY IS AFFECTED. NOT JUST MEDICALLY, BUT EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY AND FINANCIALLY. YET THE SYSTEM ONLY SEES THE CHILD, AND LEAVES EVERYONE ELSE TO COPE ALONE. THAT MUST CHANGE.
THAT MUST CHANGE
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A CHILD BECOMES SERIOUSLY ILL
THE REALITY
EVERY YEAR, THOUSANDS OF FAMILIES ARE TOLD NEWS THAT CHANGES EVERYTHING.
Parents’ lives stop overnight. Mental health deteriorates rapidly. Siblings are left without support. Finances collapse just when families need stability most.
There is no statutory mental-health support for parents in the first days and weeks after diagnosis, no structured support for siblings, and no automatic financial protection for parents who must stop working to care for their child.
WHAT THE EVIDENCE TELLS US
Research shows Mothers face dramatically higher rates of depression, anxiety, cardiovascular disease and long-term illness.
Fathers’ mental health often deteriorates in silence, with men less likely to be offered support while carrying financial pressure.
Siblings experience anxiety, isolation, educational disruption and are often forced to grow up fast without emotional support.
These outcomes are predictable and preventable, yet failing to support families early causes long-term harm and greater pressure on public services.
WHAT NEEDS TO CHANGE
Parents Deserve Better calls for reform that recognises the family as a unit of care.
This means protected, paid leave from day one; early mental-health support for both parents; recognition and support for siblings; and a system that prevents crisis rather than responding after families have already broken.
SUPPORTING PARENTS IS ESSENTIAL TO SUPPORTING CHILDREN.
ADD YOUR NAME
Make mental health support standard for parents of seriously ill children. We want this support made a standard part of every child’s care.